"Don’t ever feel bad for making a decision that upsets other people. You are not responsible for their happiness. You are responsible for your happiness. "
Isaiah Henkel (via sophiniesom)
Oh wow, this is such a difficult concept to grasp and it goes against everything that we (well, at least I, have been taught). It’s difficult to make decisions based only on yourself- it’s human nature to consider the consequences of these decisions, especially when they directly affect other people. Making decisions with careless disregard for others is also destructive… but if you’re refusing to move forward with fear that you will hurt others even though you know in your heart it’s the right decision is worse. It’s such a fine balance and reaching to this stage is incredibly difficult. Living with that decision is even harder.(via organically-gorgeous)
Yes, lets go fight magneto. in my metal wheelchair, via my metal airship, with my metal wolverine to protect me. i see no way this could ever go wrong.
please…step into my office
"Can a thin person have body image struggles? Can a thin person be at war with their self-image? Can a thin person hate to look in the mirror?
And does that suck?
But the difference between these negative feelings and fatphobia is this: The only person worrying about whether or not I’m meeting beauty standards is me.
And that’s not the same for fat folk.
When you’re not thin, other people on the beach actually do take offense. When you’re not thin, people really do think that you shouldn’t be in a bathing suit. When you’re not thin, people really do make your body their moral obligation.
And while your internal struggle is real and significant, the point is: You might hate your body, but society doesn’t.
That’s thin privilege. "
Tumblr Loves Halloween
why is it
"no boy will want you if you keep on with that feminist rubbish"
"no girl will want you if you keep on being a misogynistic piece of shit"